5 Signs Your Ageing Parents May Need Extra Support at Home

As our parents get older, it’s natural to want to support them while respecting their independence. But knowing when to step in can be difficult, especially if you don’t see them every day. Here are five common signs that your ageing loved ones may need some extra help at home:

1. Changes in Personal Hygiene or Appearance

If you notice your parent is wearing the same clothes repeatedly, neglecting personal grooming, or struggling with cleanliness, it may be a sign they’re finding daily routines more difficult and need that extra support.

Our highly trained carers can help with personal care so your loved one can have assistance with bathing and getting dressed ready for their day. They can help to introduce a routine into your loved ones day, creating more structure in their day

2. Unexplained Weight Loss or Poor Nutrition

Check the fridge or kitchen cupboards, are they full of expired food or empty altogether? Skipping meals or poor food choices could point to memory issues, mobility problems, or low motivation.

Carers can support with this and check on their daily visits that meals are being eaten and that there is food in the kitchen for your loved one to eat. They can also prepare food together so your loved one is still staying independent but knowing they are safe with carer in their home.

3. Increasing Forgetfulness

Everyone forgets things sometimes, but consistent forgetfulness, missed appointments, unpaid bills, or repeated questions could indicate cognitive decline or that they’re overwhelmed.

Caregivers can also help organise the home to reduce confusion from setting up calendars and pill boxes to creating clear routines and checklists. For individuals showing early signs of cognitive decline, having a familiar, friendly face visit regularly can offer both practical support and emotional reassurance.

Most importantly, a professional carer keeps an eye on any changes, allowing families to act early if memory issues become more serious.

4. Mobility Issues or Frequent Falls

Mobility challenges and frequent falls are serious concerns that can lead to injury, hospitalisation, or loss of confidence. A home carer can provide essential support to reduce those risks from helping with safe movement around the house, to assisting with walking aids, and ensuring everyday tasks like bathing, dressing, or cooking are done safely.

Carers can also help identify and reduce fall hazards in the home, such as loose rugs or poor lighting, and make sure that essential items are always within reach.

Most importantly, having someone there to assist whether it’s for getting out of bed, navigating stairs, or stepping into the shower, gives families peace of mind and helps loved ones stay independent for longer in the comfort of their own home.

5. Isolation or Mood Changes

Withdrawal from hobbies, friends, or regular activities could be signs of loneliness or depression. A lack of social connection can seriously affect wellbeing.

Having home care can be a help for physical health but also for mental health too. Carers offer companionship calls where they will spend time with your loved one with a cup of tea or doing something they enjoy to make sure they are feeling happy at home.

At Homelium Care, we help families spot these early signs and provide flexible, person-centred care to keep loved ones safe, supported, and independent in their own homes.

If you’re unsure whether it’s time for help, we’re here to talk.

Call us on 0333 3448 677 or email hello@homelium.com to see how we can best support you and your family!